Hold Your Loved Ones Tight

Right now I have a little bit of daughterly guilt. My mom is hurting and I don't know how to make it better. I want to be there and give her a big hug and let her have my shoulder to cry on. Losing a best friend is something that no one should ever have to go through. Cancer is an ugly disease that takes the ones that we love away far too quickly. I am happy that she is now in a better place and isn't hurting, but now the healing must begin and I must say I am lost. I want to help, I need to help and I just don't know how.

So the best thing that I can do right now is offer love and support. My mom is my rock. She is the most kind person that I know. She is always willing to put others in front of her and now I need to be there for her. 2000 miles away makes that really hard. But mom, I want you to know that I am here for you. I will always be here for you. I love you more than anything. Lori was such a sweet kind woman, and you should cherish the times that you had with her and think that she is now in a better place where she is no longer hurting.

Mom I love you! I'm so sorry that you are hurting and believe me, I will do anything that I can to make it better.

Hugs big massive bear hugs from the whole family - Stan, Molly, Dru and Me. We love you.


  1. Im sure telling your mom is good for her and she knows whats up. It is great that you care

  2. I know it can be so hard to be away from family during such a difficult time, especially when we want so badly to be able to comfort. Even though you are so far away, it makes a difference to your family just knowing that you care and are there for them across the miles. Stay strong, sweetie.