Right now I have a little bit of daughterly guilt. My mom is hurting and I don't know how to make it better. I want to be there and give her a big hug and let her have my shoulder to cry on. Losing a best friend is something that no one should ever have to go through. Cancer is an ugly disease that takes the ones that we love away far too quickly. I am happy that she is now in a better place and isn't hurting, but now the healing must begin and I must say I am lost. I want to help, I need to help and I just don't know how.
So the best thing that I can do right now is offer love and support. My mom is my rock. She is the most kind person that I know. She is always willing to put others in front of her and now I need to be there for her. 2000 miles away makes that really hard. But mom, I want you to know that I am here for you. I will always be here for you. I love you more than anything. Lori was such a sweet kind woman, and you should cherish the times that you had with her and think that she is now in a better place where she is no longer hurting.
Mom I love you! I'm so sorry that you are hurting and believe me, I will do anything that I can to make it better.
Hugs big massive bear hugs from the whole family - Stan, Molly, Dru and Me. We love you.
Im sure telling your mom is good for her and she knows whats up. It is great that you care
ReplyDeleteI know it can be so hard to be away from family during such a difficult time, especially when we want so badly to be able to comfort. Even though you are so far away, it makes a difference to your family just knowing that you care and are there for them across the miles. Stay strong, sweetie.
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